If there is one word that sums up how it is to be married for me, it would be security.
I feared marriage and growing up and being out on my own even with another person. I never expected that one of the feelings would be secure. Marry someone who not only makes you feel secure in your relationship, but in all areas if your life. Life is hard, crazy, awful, and wonderful, so do it with someone who will make every part better. Thank you, Geoffrey, for being that person.